#courtship
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No feelings No emotions No appetite No expectations No hope No desire Nothing interesting Nothing captivating Nothing desirous Nothing seductive No pain No bitterness Just numb Completely Numb.
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God cares about your love life. He cares about who you marry more than you actually do for yourself. You are not alone as you deal with your desire to be married. Actually, it is God who has kept that desire in you. Who you marry is incredibly serious and that is why you cannot…
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The path to love can be painful, if there’s lack of intentionality but there is a way to navigate the process that can avoid a lot of needless pain. It doesn’t need to be hurtful but all that will depend on how you date. Dating is a process. There is movement to it. It’s a…
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When we are looking for someone to settle into marriage in dating, two things stand out; character and chemistry. Unlike the common understanding of character being a collection of certain characteristics, here’s what character looks like for the believer. 1. You must have the same allegiance with the person you are dating. You must be…
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I have been reading a book titled ‘Keep Your Love On’ by Danny Silk and it is one among the best relational books that I have come to read. It is such a rich book that provides practical knowledge on how to do relationships through having a connection and communicating with your partner whilst at…
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Oh my God!!! It’s been so long since I wrote y’all fam probably forgot about me. I am however elated to be back and share some of the works I have been upto. So, here’s a piece I just did. I love poetry and while this may be limited to the locals in Kenya, I…
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Here’s another helpful way of analyzing the “live”attractions in your life and what they mean for your mental defense perimeter. Let’s think about two types of women who will approach your corral: Women you find attractive. Women who find you attractive. Both categories have similar defenses, each designed to starve the attractions until she trots…
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3. YOUR SWORD AND SHIELD These strategies for bouncing and starving the eyes may sound rather simple. Maybe even easy to do. But they aren’t. Satan fights you with lies, while your body fights you with the desires and strength of deeply entrenched bad habits. To win, you need a sword and a shield. Of…
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To set up your first defense perimeter with your eyes, youwant to employ the strategies of bouncing your eyes and starving your eyes as well as the tactic of taking up a “sword” and a “shield.” Let’s first consider bouncing. You can win this battle by training your eyes to “bounce” away from sights of…
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What do the first four words of the Bible mean to you? Are they just the first four words of the Bible or are they the foundation on which you base your life’s success? Listen in to @edwin_maina and I as we get to see how these four words should form the basis of successful…
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When your goal in dating is finding someone to marry, you should go about dating in away that helps you accomplish that goal. The whole point, in other words, is to get to know the person well enough to make a decision:either yes, we should get married, or no, we should not. Some people call…
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If your definition of “the one” is that one and only person who was created and is perfect for you, then I am sorry. That person doesn’t exist. Fact is, there are a number ofpeople who could make a good spouse for you, and you for them. In a world of approximately 7B people, anyone…
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Let’s get a bit raw, real and Godly! Dear young men, don’t let your life’s direction be controlled by your erection. Harness your hormones bro! Keep them in check! Don’t compromise to enjoy a few seconds of temporal pleasure and trade all that for a long lasting God ordained pleasure in marriage. Think using your…
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Gen 2:18The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper SUITABLE for him.” (NIV) Genesis 2:18[18]Now the Lord God said, It is not good (sufficient, satisfactory) that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper MEET (suitable, adapted, complementary) for him. (AMP)…
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Did you know there’s a big difference between being a beautiful lady and being a pretty girl? Here’s my take: Being pretty is how God created a girl but being beautiful is what a girl made out of herself. Who you are is God’s gift to you, what you do with yourself is your gift…
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A good relationship with another person begins with having a good relationship with yourself.A good relationship with yourself is born out of having a good relationship with God.God shows you how to love you, so you can love your neighbour as you love yourself. If you don’t love yourself, you can’t love your neighbour. God…
