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God cares about your love life. He cares about who you marry more than you actually do for yourself. You are not alone as you deal with your desire to be married. Actually, it is God who has kept that desire in you. Who you marry is incredibly serious and that is why you cannot… Read more
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The path to love can be painful, if there’s lack of intentionality but there is a way to navigate the process that can avoid a lot of needless pain. It doesn’t need to be hurtful but all that will depend on how you date. Dating is a process. There is movement to it. It’s a… Read more
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When we are looking for someone to settle into marriage in dating, two things stand out; character and chemistry. Unlike the common understanding of character being a collection of certain characteristics, here’s what character looks like for the believer. 1. You must have the same allegiance with the person you are dating. You must be… Read more
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1. You are not ready to date until you are fully aware of both the benefits and the dangers of dating. Once you understand not only the perks but also the pitfalls of dating, you are mature enough to begin opening yourself up to more serious relationships. The primary benefit of dating is the opportunity… Read more
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Genesis 24:64 TPT[64] As Rebekah got closer, she raised her eyes, and when she saw Isaac, she nearly fell off her camel! Genesis 24:67 TPT[67] Isaac fell in love with Rebekah. He took her to be his wife, and they were married, and he brought her into his mother Sarah’s tent. In this way, Isaac… Read more
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Dating can be filled with joy or pain. Take a look at the trends in dating in our century and desire to be better in it by avoiding the traps that come with it. 1. Intentional datingThis is being purposeful and driven by a clear goal: to determine whether the person you are dating is… Read more
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Your time of singleness is not wasted; it’s preparation. Your singleness is not a prison sentence you’reserving and you must therefore quit trying to free yourself from it. Many young people are too eager to get out of singleness. We must know that when God said of Adam, “It is not good for the man… Read more
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I have been reading a book titled ‘Keep Your Love On’ by Danny Silk and it is one among the best relational books that I have come to read. It is such a rich book that provides practical knowledge on how to do relationships through having a connection and communicating with your partner whilst at… Read more
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We are continually students of life and we are either green and growing or ripe and rotting. Which side are you on? I am passionate on learning on matters love. I am really working at it to be prepared when my mate finally comes. About two weeks ago, I attended a camp and we learnt… Read more
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Oh my God!!! It’s been so long since I wrote y’all fam probably forgot about me. I am however elated to be back and share some of the works I have been upto. So, here’s a piece I just did. I love poetry and while this may be limited to the locals in Kenya, I… Read more
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Here’s another helpful way of analyzing the “live”attractions in your life and what they mean for your mental defense perimeter. Let’s think about two types of women who will approach your corral: Women you find attractive. Women who find you attractive. Both categories have similar defenses, each designed to starve the attractions until she trots… Read more
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3. YOUR SWORD AND SHIELD These strategies for bouncing and starving the eyes may sound rather simple. Maybe even easy to do. But they aren’t. Satan fights you with lies, while your body fights you with the desires and strength of deeply entrenched bad habits. To win, you need a sword and a shield. Of… Read more
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To set up your first defense perimeter with your eyes, youwant to employ the strategies of bouncing your eyes and starving your eyes as well as the tactic of taking up a “sword” and a “shield.” Let’s first consider bouncing. You can win this battle by training your eyes to “bounce” away from sights of… Read more
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What do the first four words of the Bible mean to you? Are they just the first four words of the Bible or are they the foundation on which you base your life’s success? Listen in to @edwin_maina and I as we get to see how these four words should form the basis of successful… Read more
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Okay, so you’ve decided it’s time to fight. And you realize that your battle for sexual purity will cost you something. It will require sacrifice, intensity, and honor. But let’s get something else in clear view: What can you expect to gain by choosing manhood and the purity that goes with it? By winning this… Read more
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Hello fam! I am honored to be walking this journey with you. I never thought that by sharing what God has been teaching me from His Word and from other books would be received this warmly. Thank you so walking with me. So what’s next? We’ve just concluded a nine part series of what I… Read more
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When your goal in dating is finding someone to marry, you should go about dating in away that helps you accomplish that goal. The whole point, in other words, is to get to know the person well enough to make a decision:either yes, we should get married, or no, we should not. Some people call… Read more
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If you have read my previous eight posts, I have taken time to discuss the causes of unsuccessful dating in our times. ( If you haven’t, kindly spare time and have a look at them). If you have to get dating right, then you have to distance yourself from the mentioned causes. You could be… Read more
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If your definition of “the one” is that one and only person who was created and is perfect for you, then I am sorry. That person doesn’t exist. Fact is, there are a number ofpeople who could make a good spouse for you, and you for them. In a world of approximately 7B people, anyone… Read more
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Single people often see marriage as this end-game accomplishment. They think, once you get married, you’re done. You’re complete. You’ve fixed all the problems of singleness. Except you haven’t. Married people have just as many problems as single people. God’s Word actually promises that we’ll have problems: 1 Corinthians 7:28 says that “those who marry… Read more
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One complaint particularly from single Christian women, is that they never get asked out on a date. They may be great, godly women, and know some great, godly guys, but then those guys never make a move to ask anyone out. Guys it’s one thing to not date because you’re not yet ready for marriage.… Read more
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Love is more of an action and a commitment than it is a feeling. You can never really base your relationship on a feeling. Feelings change. You can feel in love with someone today and tomorrow you have feelings for another. God’s Word talks more about love as an action, not a feeling. For example,… Read more
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Living together before marriage is the ultimate in the “try before you buy” mindset, and it’s become so common and so ingrained that it deserves special mention. Depending on which statistic you look at, about two-thirds of young adults now live together before marriage. What would have been a foreign concept a couple of generations… Read more
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2. FOCUSING ON THE PHYSICAL. In dating, physical beauty is typically the biggest thing people look for. Right? While that makes a little sense, you must remember you’re choosing life partner. If your goal in dating is marriage, then you want to picksomeone who will be really good at marriage. How someone looksis never a… Read more
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Hello my WordPress Family. In the next five or more posts, I want to focus on the factors that contribute to the modern version of dating becoming unsuccessful. Let’s learn together. 1. SPORT DATING OR DATING FOR FUN. This can also be referred to as recreational dating. The main reason as to why we date… Read more
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Let’s get a bit raw, real and Godly! Dear young men, don’t let your life’s direction be controlled by your erection. Harness your hormones bro! Keep them in check! Don’t compromise to enjoy a few seconds of temporal pleasure and trade all that for a long lasting God ordained pleasure in marriage. Think using your… Read more
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Gen 2:18The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper SUITABLE for him.” (NIV) Genesis 2:18[18]Now the Lord God said, It is not good (sufficient, satisfactory) that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper MEET (suitable, adapted, complementary) for him. (AMP)… Read more
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If the partner you’re dating is not actively helping you to be like Christ, he/she will not do it when you’re married. Do not be in a hurry to get married that you overlook important elements of a relationship such as faith and character of a person during the dating period. Why settle for less?… Read more
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Did you know there’s a big difference between being a beautiful lady and being a pretty girl? Here’s my take: Being pretty is how God created a girl but being beautiful is what a girl made out of herself. Who you are is God’s gift to you, what you do with yourself is your gift… Read more
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A good relationship with another person begins with having a good relationship with yourself.A good relationship with yourself is born out of having a good relationship with God.God shows you how to love you, so you can love your neighbour as you love yourself. If you don’t love yourself, you can’t love your neighbour. God… Read more
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